The concept of a “bucket list” typically brings to mind images of wild adventures, exotic locations, and once-in-a-lifetime experiences checked off and slapped online for likes and follows. In the age of social media, this idea of travel as a form of conquest and consumption is more prevalent than ever. However, in this captivating conversation, the author of the book Live Out Your List comments on the bucket list lifestyle and suggests a radically different approach: one that emphasizes intention, purpose, and personal growth. I took some time with author and podcaster Roger Williams, to discuss this concept further. The key takeaways of our conversation on how and why you should create a bucket list are detailed for you here.
While 95% of Americans say they have a bucket list, the Live Out Your List author points out only 40% have it written down or are actively working towards crossing items off. Surprisingly, the term “bucket list” itself has only been around since 2007, thanks to the movie of the same name. Still, despite the ubiquity of the concept in pop culture, there is no one-size-fits-all approach to crafting and fulfilling a bucket list.
In the movie, the protagonists embark on a whirlwind tour of awe-inspiring places such as Egypt and the Himalayas. However, at the end of their journey, they realize that the most profound and meaningful item on their bucket list was spending quality time with family. This realization underscores a critical aspect of creating a bucket list: the need for intention and purpose.
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Roger’s personal journey towards embracing an intentional bucket list lifestyle began in 2021 when he took a gap year to focus on his own goals and aspirations. During this time, he discovered that his success in crossing off items from his list wasn’t due to his ability to travel quickly or inexpensively, but rather his ability to find joy and purpose in his experiences. This sparked the question: why was this approach so effective?
The answer, he found, was setting an intention for his bucket list. By understanding the “why” behind his goals and adventures, the author was able to create a more meaningful and fulfilling experience. This intentional approach is what sets his bucket list lifestyle apart from the standard notion of travel as mere consumption.
A highlight from this conversation is that setting an intention is crucial for anyone looking to embrace the bucket list lifestyle. By understanding the driving force behind your desires and aspirations, you can make your list truly your own and experience a deeper sense of satisfaction when crossing items off.
This intentional approach can lead to greater personal growth and self-discovery. Instead of focusing solely on external accomplishments, an intentional bucket list allows you to explore your passions, values, and relationships, ultimately leading to a more enriching life.
The concept of an intentional bucket list challenges the prevailing view of travel as mere consumption and conquest. By embracing a purpose-driven approach to life experiences, travelers can unlock the true value of the bucket list lifestyle: personal growth, deeper connections, and lasting memories. So, take the time to explore your “why” and embark on a journey that is uniquely your own, guided by intention and a desire for a richer, more meaningful life.
You can see this video interview in full here. And check out Roger’s step-by-step guide for how to live out your list here.
To listen in on how I’m living out my bucket list listen to the interview I did with Roger on taking my kids on a Heritage Trip. And as always, for weekly tips on DIY travel lifestyle and planning subscribe to our Travel Goals newsletter.